Let us be Humble

Guess what guys, we are strongly approaching a year. Can you believe that it has almost been a year? I cannot. I get overwhelmed in the thought of how you all literally dropped everything and rush to Jaque. We were a strong united front withstanding the devil. He realized that a Grandma, a Mimi, and a Mamaw were forces to strong to fold under pressue.

I know in the quiet of the nights, it was so hard to be strong, but you were. And papa's, aunts, uncles, cousins, great grandmas, friends, classmates, and teammates ----you were all so supportive.

Jaque's beauty indeeds shines through. The rays are filled with the love that you send her way, and the stories that you continue to pass on.

It has been a rough year for her class of 2009. They recently lost a young man to a gun shot accident. It was a horrible situation, and one that no one saw coming. Jaque said that the past year had made her strong. Jaque's mess-ups, her "sheer lucks", and mostly her faith in God has gotten her through. She told me that it is hard being the strong one in tough times. My comment was that she does not always have to be. She said, if i am not, who will? She is right, she is the chosen one. Each day, while still being a crazy teenager, she is realizing how awesome her circumstances really are, and how she is in control.

Each day she is looking a little healthier. We go to Little Rock on the 9th of January to speak with a specialized PT for Spinal injuries. People ask me if I am worried. I tell them that we are on God's schedule.

Last week someone entered my office. They were about in tears, realizing that the date was coming fast. I told them that it will be a happy day for me. It was the day that she showed God how hard she was willing to pitch, how fast she was willing to run, and most of all SHE SHOWED him that she was not a bench warmer, she was a starter. Praise God for her.

I also reminded them that perfection takes time. And with God on our side, it will be done.

For God will restore health unto Jaque and heal her of thy wounds. JER 30:17 Please say a prayer for her classmate Shon Tabor, 17, laid to rest on December 20, 2008. Pray for his family during this holiday season and pray for the Class of 2009.

Love you all - Merry Christmas. Carol

Christmas Time is Coming!!

Well, it has been a while since we have talked. Basketball season, deer season, grandma's ......we have been busy. I bet everyone reading this is feeling the Christmas time crunch.

Just wanted to tell you all we love you. Remember that when you feel like you are running out of time, time is all we have. We are so fortunate to be on this earth for a very short time, and if you are one of the lucky ones (like me) you are surrounded by beautiful people.

Jaque is doing great. She is the light in my life, and my reason for getting up every morning. She is growing so quickly. She is 5'8"+ now. Her attitude on life is wonderful, and she is learning that ALL things are possible. I have a lot of people ask me if she is walking yet. It use to make me sad, but more and more every day I realize that I smile now. I smile knowing that God is doing great works in her life and in her body. To think that he kept her here on this earth, that he spared her, that he chose her.....so that she has the opportunity to chose him...that is awesome.

We were in Merritt OK at a ballgame and a yound lady came up to her. She asked if she was "Jaque Hall" and she said yes. They talked for a while, and have text a little since, but Jaque saw that she had touched this young lady's life. Just now she is understand the impact that she has on our lives.

She has been going through some struggles. Mostly the expectations from her friends that are not mature enough to understand that she has no control over walking right now. They do not understand that our MAKER has the control. They do not have our MAKER in their lives. For this they will struggle. I try to tell Jaque that you can "bring a horse to water, but cannot make him drink." No matter how much she prays for someone, they have the choice. She must and is making hers, so pray for her journey. It is hard being young. But I tell her that she is the prettiest girl in the world, and Mr. Right is coming, she just has to be ready!

Just because you cannot immediately see the work, does not mean that God is not doing it. And kind of like with santa, if you believe - you will recieve. God says that if two or more gather.....well he better be ready because our line is long.

Please continue to pray Jer 30:17 for Jaque. And take time out to pray for yourself each day. God is listening, we just must see the signs he sends us.

Love you all and enjoy the new picts. JAX - cannot wait to meet you.

Let us Be Thankful

Well, we had a great time at the grandma's. (and Papa's too) It is such a different kind of beautiful in western OK. The weather was perfect, and it was wonderful to see McKenzie, Andrew, Deanna, and little Aryan. God has blessed us with a wonderful family.

On Sunday, Coach Reynolds, Jaque, and I made the journey to Ft. Smith. A young man by the name of Bryant Cummings was injured last week in a four wheeler accident. He is not doing so well mentally, so the good Lord brought it to us. Well, to Jaque I should say.

Words cannot describe to you the feeling that came over me going into that room. I was unsure if this was the right thing to do, unsure of the reaction that it might have on Bryant and Jaque. Yes, I understand that Jaque is a typical teenager, and perfectly imperfect. But touched by the hands of God, yes she has been!!

After just a few seconds, Bryants girlfriend, Coach, and I left the room. We went out and waited with the other family members. Jaque just talked his head off. About what, I am not sure, but she took a picture with her and her deer to show him that Anything is possible.

I answered a few quiet questions from Bryants mother, and family. We all sit, not knowing what to say. After about 45 minutes a few of Bryant's guy friends showed up, Jaque came and joined us. Within a moment, that small section of the hospital was so different. Just with jaque there among them, the air lifted a bit, and it smelled much sweeter. Of course in true jaque fashion, she had them laughing so much. Her stories from school, from rehab, from life in general showed this family that it is what you do with what you have that makes the difference.

When we were getting ready to leave, I gave his mother one piece of advice. I told her that just because she does the research about the situation that he is in, does not mean that he is going to be there forever. That she must know that thru prayer and knowing that God's Will is in control, she will get peace.

God will restore health unto Jaque, and he will heal her of her wounds. JER 30:17.

Please pray for Bryant. His first surgery is Nov 4. Also, please contiune to pray for Jaque, because being a teenage is hard enough. Pray that her wheels will take her where she needs go, that her mind will keep her on the right path, and that when God is ready, she will wear out all her shoes making footprints for us all to follow!

Enjoy the beautiful weather, and the awesome colors of fall. Carol

Youth hunting Season

Hey guys, just wanted to drop a note to remind you all that All things are possible with Christ. Jaque, Chris, and Kelsie are hunting this weekend. They are having a good time, and eating lots of great food from Grandma Dona and Grandma Kay. Jaque got this one opening morning, as I am sure you all know. I am so proud that she continues to show the world that the only limitations you have are the ones you place upon yourself.

This should be motivation for all of us to do something today extraordinary.

Love you all, and hopefully Kelsie will have a deer by Sunday.

Keep praying.

October???

can you believe it is October? Where has the year gone?

Jaque has been so busy in school. Our softball is now finished. Although they did not have a good year on record, they had a lot of fun, and showed a lot of heart to the bitter end. Maegan - you did a great job trying to stay focused.

We have been very busy. Lane and Lindi are FINALLY married. Lane, it took you long enough. It was very beautiful and we all had a great time.

Since we have talked last, we have ordered graduation announcements, class rings, and who knows what else. Senior year is tough on the pocketbook, but I could not think of anything in the world I would rather be spending my money on. Jaque, a BIG senior. Wow. I look at her, all grown up and am so proud. She is such a unique blend of Chris and me. I thank God every day. In fact, I changed my alarm in the morning, it says Thank God for One more day with you.

How often do we remember to do that? My dad turned 60 years old on October 3rd. He is a great man. Throughout my life, he has always been at my side. He is the strength that I pull from, he is the rock in our family. And yes dad, I remember the one spanking you gave me. It was the ice water I spilled on you that made me do it. Happy Birthday Dad.

Jaque is doing well. She is gearing up for hunting season. She is continuing to get stronger, and look healthier. I pray that God is working in her, she shows signs of his power throughout her body. He knows that she is strong, and he is not finished with her yet. We must all pray and be prepared to receive God's blessings in her life. She is scheduled to go to Little Rock to Dr Kisser in January for a physical theraphy regimn. Dr McCarthy says that he is the best around. Dr McCarthy would know, he fought the devil for Jaque, and won. As he says, Jaque Jaque Jaque!

Thanks to all for continuing to follow her story. You will not be disappointed.......Love you!



Senior year..............

Jaque

Hey everyone its me Jaque.... Senior pics are tomorrow.....Im kinda excited but its wateva...lol I cant wait till thanksgiving....food....family omg i jus cant wait.. I want to say to all the young girls that read my blog......Dont fall in love durin high school live life take it one man at a time have fun AND remember there is someone who cares for you.....lol....
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i dont know if mom told yall but i wakeboarded it was so fun... well ttyl

It's a small world!

Say What? One of the writers of "I'll Walk" posting on Jaque's blog, no way......YES WAY! What a blessing it was to see. Little bitty Jaque Hall from Haworth OK touching lives.....each and every day. That poor ol' devil just does not know who he is dealing with. The ol' devil thinks that he can send bad things our way, but he forgets about the "Jaque" factor.

That ol' devil forgets that Chris, Jaque, and I are so blessed with our wonderful family and a huge group of friends. And we have proven that it is not just about pryaing for Jaque, it is about us all praying for one another. Do you all remember the waiting room in Texarkana, in all the confusion, I told someone (not sure who) to take pictures of the people there, because Jaque would not believe it. She would not believe us getting kicked out of the general waiting area in little Rock, on more than one occasion. And when we were last at Little Rock, I showed her the surgery waiting room that we filled with those that could make it up that Thursday, January 17 --- she was amazed.

We were at the McCurtain CO softball tourney last week. You know she is 3 x all tourney team -- and with me, she is it again this year. We were watching a team warm up, and she commented that they probably did not like her very well, because in a game last year, Jaque hit their pitcher with a screwball (on accident) and she was out for the rest of the game. I reminded her that they sent balloons and a little lion. And a wonderfully signed card. She just smiled.

As we strolled through the bal park, we were stopped by kids, and most every coach that was there. Jaque of course gave them a hug, and told them " I bet you are sure glad I am not out there!" She is so wrong. I know everyone in this county cannot wait until the day that Jaque blankets them with a shutout, no hitter.

Last night we were getting ready for bed, and she was feeling of her ribs. She was telling me which ones hurt, guess that is the broken ones still healing. She and I were talking, and I said God knows what he is doing. He is HEALING YOU OF YOUR WOUNDS. IN HIS TIME. That is true in all of our lives. We must imbrace all that makes up our everyday. We must Seize each day. Yes, that is easier said than done, I know. But I know that with parents like Chris and I have - we are fourtunate. Our mothers literally dropped their lives for a month - would have done more if we needed. And still found time to spend with us to help when we got home. And I have no doubt that if I called them today, they would be here as soon as they could. Prasie God for them, let us all not take for granted one day that they are here on earth with us. May each of you reading this say a prayer for them today.

Just keep Jaque in your thoughts as she tries to make it to the softball games, they are hot and it really is a long time in her chair. She needs your prayers. May she be touching the lives of those girls. No matter how much she pushed them, she cares for each and every one. She is the first one there if they are in trouble, and as I told the buckytown website, she is the last one textin' them to make sure they make it home on Friday night. I love you all, and as Jaque would say, "That's how I roll."

Schools coming!

Yes, it has been awhile. I have missed you all. Believe it or not, i can tell when you all are reading this blog, the power of prayer is great.

I guess everyone reading is feeling the back to school rush. In some kind of way, it affects us all. Our house is no different. Trying to get clothes, schedules, and routines down - that is difficult when summer is still here. It seems as though we have skipped a few months. I wrote August on a check the other day, and thought where has time went?

On to the important stuff. Jaque is doing well. She has been feeling great, and got to go to Lane's wedding shower last weekend. It was great to meet his friends, and be a part of the new life he is building. I know that they too are still praying. One said we are not just praying, we are praying for a complete recovery. We went for a pulmunary (lung) study, and are awaiting the results. The estimate that Jaque is around 5'8" now, still growing. She is still thin, but putting on weight gradually. She is wearing a size 5 (all you women can visualize her now!). She jokes that her shoes are actually lasting now, and she does not have to take them off in the house.

Funny those things that we worry about, and how they really do not mean a thing. I mean I would really just love to see Jaque run through my house with muddy shoes that are brand new. I cannot wait to see her get her brand new school jeans marked up with grass stains because she is playing football with the guys, again. And when she gets mud all in the floor board of my truck, I will do my best to just laugh about it.

So how do we keep the faith. Day in and day out, how do we, those that love and respect her, keep the faith. Simple. God tells us that we should give our children to him. 100%. We cannot teeter totter. So, I give her to him each morning, and thank him for her each night. She, and all our kids are such a blessing. And we must not forget to cast that ol' devil out. He is not welcome in this house.

And what about those doubters (you see in passing) that say we must resolve ourselves to what is here and now? Those that say..well she must be depressed? To embrace life in its current form is a must. No one (doctors) can say what the future holds for Jaque. Only God knows. But that can be true for all of us. Who of us does not have a bad day? Jaque's wonderful attitude is such a refreshing blessing. And still I am amazed at some of the things she tells me. Her bad days are short curfews and nights that she cannot go out with friends. She told me last night that she had to eat pasta, because it was the night before their first softball game for school. She just smiled so big when she said it, and said "that is what I always do mom." And we did. She knows, as I know, that she will walk again. We are not sure when...but she will.

So what say we to those doubters? Just pray that God will fill them with the HOPE and LOVE that we all have. Just tell them that each day on this earth is a gift. And tell them that when she walks, they too will feel the power of the LORD come over them. Like I always tell you guys, it is the JAQUE factor. Please pray that the lung study comes out well. And eat some PASTA!! Love ya'll.

Is it hot or what?

Good evening all. We have just made a mad dash from Little Rock to get Jaque home in time for the first softball practice of the school year. We had a quick appointment with Dr MacCarthey. It was short notice, nothing wrong. It was her check up for 6 mo after surgery. He took new xrays and said all looked like it was healing very well.

He told her that she looked great. He also is referring us to a physical theraphist in Little Rock that specializes in spinal injury. He will be a look local resource for us. Yes, we missed most everyone in Little Rock, but Jaque promises to return and see you all soon. This time maybe we will have a little more notice.

Deanna is here and rode with us. We had a great time, and enjoyed spending the night in Little Rock. Man, it is a good drive up there. It was almost more that Chris and I could handle knowing that all of you came all that way to be there for us. You are such great friends and family. It was emotional, actually seeing the hospital really for the first time. I could not even find my way to cafeteria. It truely is amazing that God blessed us with all of you. Our mothers, well I can jsut not say enough about what you have done. Brother Jerry and Jason, you have kept the fire lit.

It is so hard to stay focused and remember that God is in control. I say hard, I mean to let that ol' devil creep in your thoughts. You now the one that makes you want to sit infront of the couch each day when you get home, instead of going in that yard to mow. But if you let that yard go to long, it is out of control and you end up having to call in help. Once it is grown up, it takes a good three mowings to get it back looking like it ought to. So why do we do it? Why do we let that ol devil in?

Well, God speaks. And we must listen. He says to me that All things are possible. He tells me that Jaque is alive today because of a miracle. And within that miracle, our family and friends have grown closer. Now, we must all work to make sure that we keep the grass mowed where we can see one another. I pray each day for the stregth to leave Jaque in God's hands. I pray for his will in her life. And I pray for those who think they have no one praying for them. Prissy, your comments are never to late to be read, and I feel your prayers every day.

Oh, and just to let you all know - Jaque helped Coach with practice tonight. She and Nina helped Coach Amanda break in the new recruits. Amanda, yes - the book 90 minutes in heaven was great. I promise to pass it forward to someone deserving of the read, and keep the love you have given me growing in our families. Please pray for us to live our lives to the best we can each day, and as school is soon to start back - pray for Jaque to surround herself with those that will indeed share in the glory she will receive. And pray that Jaque's accident will touch her friends and make the more cautioooous driving.

LAST BUT NOT LEAST when Dr McCarthey told Jaque that she was released to do what she felt she could, she admittedd that she had been on a jet ski by herself yesterday. He jsut smiled and told her good for her!

Don't you just love summer?

Well, as I write this, Jaque is out wih her friends. She has had a wonderful week. God is working within her. She just radiates sunshine!

This week is the first week since her accident that she has ALL BY HERSELF gotten out of bed, gotten dressed, fixed breakfast, put her shoes and socks on, and straightened her hair!! ALL BY HERSELF. God is so great. It was the most glorious smile I have seen on her face. It was priceless.

She really can feel the prayers, and is learning that when things seem tough, just cast that ol' devil out and you are sure to feel better. Today on our way home from walmart she told me that she is excited about going to college. She said that she would like to still go to OBU, but that a lot of her friends are in Texarkana and that might be fun also. I am just amazed that she draws so much confidence from you all - our friend and family.

We had a great 4th. A few bumps, but nothing to tough for us! Eddie has become friends with frogs. You know that is funny "Fully Relying On God" FROG. I just hope he doesn't eat one. Technically is that people food? He and Jaque both went camping on the forth. They did not get to watch the fireworks, but they got to play on the tube.

I wanted to say a big thank you to Aunt Larissa. She has done so much for Jaque over the past few months. I know that we would not be where we are at today without her help. She is the quiet strength that I see Jaque drawing on. I am so thankful for her, Toby, Jaron, and Jordan. She is never to busy to lend an ear or to run to the RX. So thanks Aunt Lisa. God knows who his people are, and you are on that list. Not by you works alone, just for being you. You have made a difference in Jaque.

We got our sidewalks in the front yard finished. Jaque can officially make it from the front door, to the side door, and all the way down to the pond. Best part is she can do it when she wants to.

Please continue to pray. It is working. We rode 12.43 miles on the bike, new record, but what else do you expect?

Guys,in all of our everyday lives we all have a lot going on. Thank you so much for keeping up the prayer chain, and your faithfulness is so wonderful. I want you all to know that God is working in our lives, in Jaque's life, and he is GOOD. Please know that we pray for our family and friends every night. And please tonight pray for those that may not have anyone else. Without you, I cannot imagine the last 6 months. Without you all, I cannot imagine what Chris and I would have done. Thank you. Mom, Momma Kay, Melinda - you are the best. Mom and Momma Kay thank you so much for being with us all that time in Little Rock. You are the strongest people that I know. For all the laundry and the goodie baskets, thanks.

Hope you all are having a great summer, more pics to follow!

What a weekend!

We had a wonderful weekend, guys, how about you?

Saturday, the Texarkana Fastpitch had a benefit tournament for Jaque at Karr Park in Texarkana. It was a great turnout. Coacj John called jaque on Wednesday and asked if she would throw out the first pitch for the Vipers frist game. It was so great to see everyone.

As we pulled into the parking lot, there they all were waiting for her. They had saved her a parking place up front! Coach John and all the girls sported pink hair bows with Jaque #5 on them. Funny, as we were leaving the house I had told Jaque that she had forgotten her pink ribbon, she said "Oh mom, it will be all right." And it was. Not all the Viper's could be at Texarkana due to previous plans, but we were so glad to see those that could make it. And Ashley - God did take care of things. **Always remember, when he wants you in a certain place, he will find a way to get you there!**

So - as we gathered on the field, all the teams stopped playing and came over to our field. Coach John gave us a great welcome and Jaque threw the first pitch to an anxiously awaiting Heather (that of course Umpire Gene called a strike!) Then as usual, Jaque had to trash talk all the umpires. HAHA! We did get some really good pictures.

Jaque and Coach John called the pitches. I can tell you all that Ariel did a great job, and as they usually are a great 1-2 combo. I know that it was not the usual combination, but it worked very well. And the smile on Jaque's face was proof. Ariel, you did a great job. We went to lunch and they were the usual cut ups that they always are. We did not let Jaque and Nicki ride together!!

A coach came up to me and said that his team would enter the NFSA world series, and would like to add Jaque to his roster. I told him that I appreciated the gesture and just one thing If she is up and walking by the time they go, she will expect playing time. We just laughed. For all of you that know jaque well, you know I am not kidding.

It was great seeing the girls working hard. Katie - I am glad you got to make it over. Most of the Vipers will be moving on to college next year. They played well, and got 3rd. The tournament was rained out late Saturday evening. God kept us all there as long as wanted.

I appreciate everyone that participated and helped with the planning of this tournament. I know that because jaque grew up in such a great organization, she is indeed blessed with many friendships, and Chris and I are also. This is part of what makes her the wonderful person she is today. The Viper parents are a great group. Your prayers and support is sssoooo greatly appreciated.

I know that in all things, you must trust God. I know that in all things, it will be he who strengthens us. I know that prayers are answered daily, and we all KNOW that Miracles happen, we seen them first hand.

Love you all and have a safe holiday weekend.

Urgent Prayer Request!

Please pray for our cousin DEANNA OLDHAM, she is currently in ICU and listed as stable. She desperately needs our prayers for her lungs. We all are aware that the power of prayer will guide the doctor's hands. Also, her parents Gin and Dee Bartgis, her two children Ryan and Justin, and her family. We love them and hold them up with our prayer chain. Give them strength, hope, and let them feel the love we all have for them.

What a wonderful family we have!

Yes, we made it. Finally - we made it to Grandma's x 2 house. We spent the first day at Grandma Donna's. She and Papa Danny built a wonderful ramp for Jaque. We spent most of our time on the screened in porch and of course eating. Roxanne is looking great. Her baby is due end of July. Donielle and Jaque entertained Deanna and her friend Raven. They danced for two hours listening to songs on Jaque's phone. I don't think Jaque moved like that before the accident. YOU GO GIRL! Jaque's cousins Jordan and Lindsey came over too. Jordan and Jaque played guitar hero, and Lindsey filled Jaque in on how her softball was going. We were so glad to see Deanna play softball.

On Saturday we went to Grandma Della's 80 birthday. We got to see lots of family. most of them have only seen updates on the blog, so they were ready to get their hands on Jaque. Everyone I met said that they had been keeping updated on Jaque and had been praying for her everyday. God is good. Grandma Kay invited everyone back to her house after, and we had a wonderful time. Jaron and Jordan kept a good watchful eye on Eddie for us. Mckenzie and Andrew are growing so much. And yes, Tyson, you are a joy to have running with our crowd. For Jaque's friend that came over on Sat night, thanks for taking time out of your day and life to come and spend time with her.

Believe it or not, Sunday came all to soon. We let Jaque stay in western OK for the week. She has already been swimming, and fishing, and who knows what else. I am sure that she, Larissa, Prissy, and Lyndi are giving Grandma Kay a run for her money. I thank the for including her in their week of fun.

Today I wanted to share with you all a very lovely story. On our way out of town Sunday, we dropped Jaque off at the Green's Resturant in Burns Flat. When I went in to tell her bye, a man stopped me. He was standing behind Jaque and had such a proud look on his face. He asked me if I knew him. He introduced hisself. He said that I may not remember him but that he went to all my basketball games when I was in school. Said he never missed one. Told Jaque that I may have been small, but I had all the moves. Here is where the story gets good.

He told me that last November he had the opportunity to see Jaque. What had happened is that she was in BF and asked the coach if she could practice with the Burns Flat team. She did not want to get rusty while away from Haworth. He just happened to be at the school and got to watch Jaque practice. He said he also got an opportunity to talk with her for a little while.

Brunt of what he said can be summed up in this statement. He said "You know Carol, I know a lot of people in this world that are up and walking around, and they are way behind where Jaque is in life. She is a wonderful confident young lady, and God has great things in store for her." He told me to be patient and that they would keep praying for her.

A stranger, well, pretty much a stranger. She has affected this man. She has touched his life. Not just through sports, but through her voice. He is right. To get where you are going in life you need a path that you want to follow. You need a plan to get down that path. And you need to know what you are going to do if you hit a bump on the way. The best part about life is when we hit a bump, we have help there with us through family and friends. They will either pick us up or lay with us a little while we rest until we are ready to get back up and go again.

The path is up to us. I am so proud of everyone that I saw this weekend. I am proud of who they are and that they are a part of our family. Thank you for putting this wonderful smile on this beautiful girls face. Thank you for all your prayers.

And until next time - find the song by Deirks Bentley entitled "I'll Walk." Jaque listens to it each night before going to bed. And remember, she is rolling down her path right now, of course rolling faster than she should, but that is because she knows she has all of you there to catch her if she falls. Love you all.

Look out Grandma's, here we come!

Do you like the picture? Yep, that is her. I just do not like that you cannot see the HUGE smile that she had on her face. We were up at the lake and her friend Josh had his jet ski. Of course she batted those beautiful eyes, and next thing you know she was in the drivers seat. I offered him gas money, he said no. I reminded him that gas was high and he should not say no so quickly. He said that "it's Jaque, so it is always ok."

She had a lot of fun. Then she and I went to the middle of the cove and we let her get off. We wanted to make sure that if she fell off, she could get back on. You know she is 17, so with her little indenpedent wings flapping, we were off. You would be suprised to know (well, most of you would not) that she needed very little help from me. She amazes me with her upper body strength. And when she puts her mind to something, nothing can stop her.

We are gearing up to go to Grandma Kay and Grandma Donna's houses. We are all very excited. It will be Chris's Grandma Della's 80th birthday party. What an occasion! I hope that the weather is on our side. I am sure that everyone in Burns Flat/Dill City, and Elk City area are axiously awaiting seeing Jaque. Well, let me forewarn all of you. It is not quite what you will expect. She is doing so wonderful. You kind of just look at her and really expect for her to just stand up at any minute walk right over to you and say "you just got punk'd." And walk off laughing.

I know, sounds weird to read. But, honestly, she just looks that great. We are getting ready to pur sidewalks at the house for her to access easier. And I was talking with a friend about it and about college approaching quickly. I had made a comment about how Jaque would surely get the best dorm room now. You know the accessible dorms are always bigger and easy to get to. She looked at me and said " you have not given up on her walking, have you?" I answered, "No, I have no doubt that she is going to walk again." I also said that I want jaque to understand that college is still the option for her and whatever we have to do to make it work would be done. My friend said, good - that she did not doubt Jaque either. Just reminds me that people around you take notice of what you do and say in your life. I need to make sure that each day I am sure to leave no doubt where my conviction is.

My God says that he is "Restoring health unto Jaque, and he is healing her wounds." Jer 30:17. He did not say it would be overnight, he did not say that it would take a life time. He will do this in his time. And that will be perfect. Thank you all for your faithfulness. Thank you for your support. And most of all, thank you for your continued prayer.

As news develops on the lake front and our brave child is captured again on camera - I will post!!! To Kelsi, Madison, Maegan, Haley -- thanks for keeping Jaque so busy this summer. love you all. Carol

THE BABY IS HERE

Big welcome to ZOEY ADISON !! The 6 lb 13 oz, 19 inch little baby girl born to Heath and Courtney Mckee June 4 at 6:15 pm. They are at Wadley Regional in Texarkana. Please send a prayer up for all of them (including big sister Jadie, and little brother Jarrett.)

Got to Love that Okie Weather

Hot, that is about as descriptive as it gets today. If we had a sail boat, we would have a lot of fun at Broken Bow lake today.

Jaque was thankful to get her window's tinted in her car. It looks "cool" I know, but it is also very helpful on those hot summer days when the leather really tends to soak up the sun. Eddie and Sassy are staying busy in the pond. Eddie knows that each day whoever gets home first will treat him to throwing his toy in, and the rest is just messy! He has learned to get out of the pond, shake well, and then bring his toy to Jaque. Funny how quick he picked up on that. Sassy, of course, is not going to get hot. So she just sits and watches. Finally, when she has seen enough, she will run down and wait on Eddie to come up out of the water, then she just bites his neck. Yep, renders him helpless. I think he likes the attention from her.

Chris has been working hard on his shut-down at work. That is the time of year that they bring the machines down and do maintenance on them. Uncle Toby and Bo are also hard at work there. Jaque and Haley have been running the roads together a lot. This week Jordan has been with them while Jaron is in science camp. I thought a lot about what kind of friends Jaque had before her accident, and how that relates to what she has after. You know the good friends are just that much better.

Jaque has been working hard on her bike. She has went as far as 11.84 miles on it. (that is in one hour.) It also keeps track of how much energy it takes her body to go the distance. And tracks the stem that it takes to aid the muscles to turn the "wheel" on the bike. So, it is a virtual brain. It is amazing that someone just sit around and thought this machine up.

We are gearing up this week to travel to Grandma Kay and Grandma Donna's next weekend. It has been a while since we have been over there, so we are all getting excited.

Well, last but not least - COURTNEY! You all became very close to her while Jaque was in the hospital. She is expecting a girl anyday. We do not have a baby yet, but as many of you may know, she has been at home and on bed rest for about three weeks. She goes to the doctor this afternoon. Please pray that he is ready to take the baby! We want this baby to come into this world on God's time. I want for all of you to pray for her health and that of the baby. Please also pray for Jadie and Jarrett as they are trying to be good and patient while mom has been on a strict "no playing" diet. Courtney, we all love you and think the world of you. God knew what he was doing when he chose for you to be a mom to another one of his children. You are a great person. We love you so much! And I know that this is from ALL OF THE JAQUE HALL FAMILY AND FRIENDS. I will let you all know ASAP when she finally has that baby!!!!!

Thank God for the mom's in my life. I love them all dearly.

Memorial Day - finally get to swim

Hey all. Guess you are all sitting around nursing that sunburn like we all are. Well I know it has been a while since I posted anything. Sorry. We have been super busy. It is still so hard to keep up with Jaque. She has traveled tonight to Horatio AR to watch her summer team, the Haworth Heat (school kids) play. I know she really got to miss playing, but when her friends are on the field, that is where she wants to be also.

Jaque's freshman ball players graduated from our JR High last week. She was mentioned in two of their speeches. I wanted to wait to post until I had exact word's, but just feel led to have you all know about them. Kayla's speech started "when you feel like giving up, play harder." she said that this is a quote from Jaque Hall. She went on to talk about how that really goes for everything in your life, and ended it with the same sentence she started with . It was a great speech. Then came Rachel. She wanted to talk about hero's. I will post the entire speech when I get a copy. She talked about how the night of the accident changed her life, and through it how much even moreso that Jaque was her hero. She said that she did not have a cape, but that her attitude, faith, and knowing that God was using her for a greater good -- that is what makes Jaque her hero. She said that she, like everyone else, questioned why Jaque. She could not understand of all it could have been, why her. She said that she came to the understanding that she knows that God sees that Jaque will make a great witness, now, and when she walks again.

It was wonderful. I was so proud as a mother. I thought that your entire life as a mom you dream that people can see what you see in your child, and with Jaque they do. Praise God.

Do you like the picture? Yep, she did it. She rode the tube this weekend. Yes, she even got on the smaller one and told Chris to speed up and to turn some. I of course hit him up side the head! But she laughed and said "mom, chill out." She got to swim. We have waited so long. We did not just sit and watch her, more we just floated and relaxed. She did do the mirmade and used her arms and midsection to make her feet float up to the top of the water. And yes - grandma's she even tried a little with the life jacket off, when I was not looking. And I am not even going to mention that Chris let her drive the boat.

We really had a great weekend camping with Toby, Larissa, Jaron, Jordan, and Andrew. I am sitting in an empty house, and all I can think of is to thank God for saving Jaques life! I am like you all -- impatient at times, but as you can see her smile is as big as it ever was. She just lights up a room.

I thank God for our wonderful family and friends. You are a great support system. You always here people say that if they could just save one person on this earth, if they could just make a difference in one persons life - they will be happy. Well, I hope through Jaque's story, she not only saved and touched all of us, but we can pay it foward as well. God bless each and every one of you tonight. May he come into your heart and give you a hug from mine! Carol

If your happy and you know it hit SEND!

Just want to let Jaque know how many of you are reading this blog everyday, or at least once a week. So this is what I propose ---- if you are reading this, simply send this message to Jaque:

I am reading your blog today and have said a prayer for you. Send this to jaqueshomeplate8@yahoo.com

As the preacher was speaking today, he said "my little buddy Jaque." He used her in his sermon, and it was wonderful. I told Jaque that it was the one time in my life I can remember using a teenage as a positive, and as an example of the attitude that he wants us all to have. He talked to us all on rebellion, and the consequences of your actions. He and I had talked in the hospital about Jaque. I told him that right after she turned 16 we went through a period of her wanting more freedom. But I shared with him that she was actually where she was suppose to be, with who she was suppose to be with. About two months before her accident, she had really began to "mellow" and she had gotten over that part, and really began to come into her own as a lovely young lady.

He was telling us that sometimes if we are not listening, God will make us take notice. He said that he understood this. He said, "I just do not understand why this had to happen to our Jaque." That you can be doing everything right in your life, and bad things can happen. He said that he was so proud of her and her attitude. he said that he can not wait to share in her glory when she walks, and that she has touched so many people. Her name was on the church sign and the sign at school from her accident until she came home. Grown people we brought to tears. Some I had no idea Jaque even knew. After church adults came up to us one by one. Hugging her and telling her how much they loved her and how much she meant to them. Then a woman that I officially met today stopped me on my way out. She was talking about how our church fasted for 21 days. During that time we rec'd many blessings. She said that she just wanted to say that Jaque had no idea how many lives she has touched. She said that the Lord has been speaking with her about Jaque, and that she was going to touch so many more when she takes that first step.

Prasie God for the witness that she will be, and for allowing us all to share, and carry forward to others.

Of course you know her, she had to have the last word. Bro Jerry came over and she hugged him and thanked him and then said "Guess it is a good thing I showed up this morning, cause you would not have had much to talk about if I didn't." Typically Jaque, right.

Might have told you all this before, but Our church has given us a sign to put in our yard. They also have t-shirts for a campaign that they are doing. Bro Jerry is a wise man -- it says Nothing is to hard for God. When I think that God has used her in a way I thought impossible, she turns up on TV, in the paper, and now in a sermon. Bro Jerry is right, she is indeed a blessed child.

By the way, she is loving being back in her car. I think it brought the blood pressure up 10 pts. To Grandma Donna, Grandma Kay, and Mamaw Melinda - thank you all so much for coming and helping out the past three weeks. You are indeed great women. I love and appreciate you very much. Just wanted to let you all know that you are unique and special each in your own way, and I love you for that.

This is the last week of school, so I have asked Jaque to get me some good pictues to post for you all. I will post.

One last thing. Thanks to Jason, Lauren, and Jax for creating this wonderful site for all of our family and friends to keep up with Jaques progress. I hope to see you soon. I am sure Jason, that you are a wonderful father. Just remember to teach him to play cards as well as you did Jaque and you will be just fine.

MVP - 3 years running

Yes, she is the bomb diggity! This year Jaque receive 5 awards. In basketball, the REBOUND award (even though she only played 1/2 of hte season she had most rebounds) and the HUSTLE award (coach said she never would quit, she would make them run 15 suicides and make them get back on the line - then she would ask them if they had enough and Jaque would say - lets go a few more). In softball she received the OFFENSIVE PLAYER OF THE YEAR AWARD, CO-DEFENSIVE PLAYER OF THE YEAR (with Maegan), and MOST VALUABLE PLAYER.

It was such an emotional night for us all. Toby, Larissa, Jaron, Jordan, Phillip, and Melinda joined us. We all did really great. Jaque and I told each other we could not cry - then when jaque and maegan won their award together Maegan just broke down. I guess you could say part of Maegan is sitting in that chair with Jaque. Coach did an excellent job, she stayed stong. It was a "Lei--ing it on the line" Hawaiian theme. The decorations were perfect.

Coach said it all with the theme. I mean really, really - if we all just did that everyday, would our lives not improve? Made me think about our last game of regionals. She had pitched her heart out. We had been up the entire game, and ended up losing in the bottom of the last inning. She had done all she could do. Pitching two back to back games, 14 innings in a row is no small feat. We lost, and some of the girls came off crying. Not Jaque. She said "Mom I know that I should be crying with them, but I just can't. I mean I am sorry that we lost, but played the best I could play, so I am not sad."

I am thankful that Chris and I never told her no. You know, not that she is so spoiled that she has gotten everything she ever asked for. But what I mean is that we never said no when it came to her sports. And, I can honestly say Chris and I were at every game. We made sure that she never played a game without one of us there. In fact, we never missed a tournament with select ball. Whether it was Colorado, Houston, Utah, Texarkana, Hope, Dallas, wherever the yellow ball called her, she went. And I know that whenever a coach called and said that he needed her, it was always her decision, and she never once said no. She missed so many holidays on the lake. She would call her friends and they would be riding jet ski's. She would say, well we will see you late tonight. They would ask how late - and she would say if we make the finals, I guess I will just see you in the morning.

She told Maegan after the banquet that she was thankful that it was not her. That if it had to be someone, she was glad it was her. She said that she knew she was strong enought to get through this. She also told her to not give up hope. That if it is in God's plan, they just might be back on that field next year. She said they would be anyway, maybe not the 1-2 combo, but she assured her that she was still going to push her as hard as she ever did.

I know that with everyone, patience is easy some of the time. It is hard all of the time. It must be really hard to be patient when everyone around you (like her friends) are ready now. But we must remember that the devil will not always just attack us when we are weak. More often than not he will attack us when we have had a great day. He will attack us when we are feeling great. But just cast him out, and let him know that we do not have time for his childish ways.

I will leave you today with this: When we got home with all of Jaques awards we looked at her trophy wall in the den. We still had heavy hearts. We talked about how Chris would have to make room for the new ones. This is what I told her as she hugged me and sobbed. I said "Jaque, dad is really going to have a hard time making room." she asked why? I said "because we are going to have to move all of that from the middle." she still was not following me. "I said that she was alive and that was the best gift. And when God choses for her to walk again, the picture of the first step will hang in the middle as her best trophy yet." She just looked up at me with that beautiful smile and that was the end of the tears. She was feeling much better. And she will, with faith, hope, love, and you all as our support, she will.

love you all - Carol

May shower's bring the LAKE!

I guess you have all been thinking about us camping. We got a call on Friday afternoon of a couple wanting our camper. We picked up our new one and took Jaque camping on Friday night. She really had a great time. It has enough room for her to manuver throughout. She even picked up a couple of friends and they came and spent the night.

Yes, we have a few things to improve on, but it really was nice to get away. We went with Bo and Lori in their boat. I was nervous. I asked Jaque if she was cold, were the waves bothering her, was she getting sick at her stomach. She said "Mom, I am fine. It is just like riding in the boat last year." Then she had the Dah look for me. You all know that one.

We were all sitting around Sat night just talking and eating the wonderful dinner that Lori had prepared for us. A lady came over and told us that there were storms all around. That we might want to take cover. Lori and I looked at the sky, and agreed that it wasn't that bad. About that time it started to rain, with eventual hail. Still, to us it was not that bad. We decided to be safe and head to the bathrooms for cover. By the time we got there the radio said the worst (a tornado warning) had just passed us, and we were in the clear. Of course it rained off and on all night, but we were out of the bad weather. The next day it was a little windy, but the sun came out. Even enough to catch a suntan.

Funny. In the eye of a storm we sat. Jaque, Maegan, Madison, Me, Lori, Bo, and Chris. All friends. All trusting in one another. We sat calmly, because we were in the presence of true friendship. We knew as long as we were all together, we would be ok. We knew that the is always sunshine after the rain. I guess you could say we all had faith that we would not be harmed.

Our journey with you ALL and Jaque is the same feeling for me. She actually moved her entire lower right leg on command today twice. Yes, just twice. Just????? No, I should say YES, TWICE. Then it was gone. But I know that all of you are sitting at my picnic table with me. I know that we are in this together. I know that without a doubt God is bringing us all through this journey. In each of our lives, we are to learn something from this. Not see something different, but actually learn what we have been looking over in our lives. God is there every minute of every day. He is the only one that will always be there for us. We must listen closely and learn from what he shares with us. He did not harm Jaque, but she is our Superman - so through her - we are seeing a brighter light.

I will close today with a short story. I ran into a man from idabel yesterday. He said he was so sorry for us. He said that he knew of a little girl that had an accident about three years ago and she was depressed for the first two. He said that he hated that I had to go through that with Jaque. I just giggled. yes, I giggled at him. I told him that he must not have seen Jaque since her accident. he said no he had not. I told him that I appreciate his concern, but that he did not need to worry. That Jaque is going to be ok. I told him that Jaque is stronger than anyone that I have ever met. That she is truely an inspiration to all around her. And I also told him that God is just making us be patient. I know in my heart that she will walk again. I have no doubt. Not sure quite when, but I have not doubt. At that moment, I felt a peace in my heart that was as if God came down and kissed me square on the forehead. It was glorious.

We must continue to give him the glory. I thank Maegan, Madison, and Haley for coming over last night and keeping me up til midnight to help jaque with homework and her nameplate for tonights sports banquet. They are great friends. I also hope that Ethan is reading this blog and know that he and his family is always in our hearts and prayers.

I will update on what might happen at the sports banquet tonight. It will be emotional for our Coach. jaque made a sign with her and Coach Reynolds on it that says 2008-09 Coaches. Too funny, huh. Love ya'll.
Carol

Here she comes just a "cruising" down the street!

Yes, Jaque has her ride back. Yesterday Aunt Larissa and Grandma Kay took Jaque's car down and dropped it off. Praise God for our wonderful family. A place in Dangerfield TX put in her hand controls, and then she got to drive it home. She had such a big grin on her face. We actually giggled when she got a cramp in her hand from sqeezing the wheel to hard.

When we pulled up in the driveway she started honking the horn at dad! She told him to hop in and they went for a short ride to Idabel. I do not know who looked more proud. I know that all of you are thinking -- what are Chris and Carol thinking letting her drive, right? Well, you have to understand that Jaque has been such an independent child her entire life. She never has stayed idle for long. I can remember a time when she had just started walking. She caught me out of the kitchen. She pushed over a chair, climbed on to the counter, on to the bread box, up on top of the fridge, and was eating cereal. This is the day that I knew God was telling me to step out of my comfort zone. From that day forward, i have looked at her in awe. She and I laughed so hard when a car pulled out in front of her and her leg (all on its own) tried to hit the brake. Don't worry, they put a plate in front of the gas and brake so you cannot get your feet stuck on them.

It is so busy. Trying to get back into a work/school routine. Uncle Lane came in this weekend. Jaque was glad that he helped Chris pour the ramp out the back door. Sassy got her paws in on it while everyone was in the front yard. Lane also makes a great fork truck. And she keeps warning him about that AD (adrian peterson) jersey on his wall. Says he better hide it when we come down.

Just as a medical update we are seeing some great improvements in her trunk control. She is gaining more control in the torsoe. Also, her lungs are doing better. Doctor just thinks that the allergies around McCurtain County are going to take a little getting use to. Jaron and Jordan caught her some really cool bugs last night down by our pond. And Eddie is loving the pond.

I cannot even express to you all how much I appreciate your reading this blog and your continued prayers for Jaque and our family. We are so lucky. A man that I met once - our area manager where I work - was in today. First thing he did was hug me and asked how "Jaque" was doing. He said that he had everyone he knows praying for her and that he knew God had plans for her. He had come to know of her just a couple of weeks before her accident and he said that something about her just touched his heart. He said that we just have to be patient in life to get the good God has to offer.

Jaque's friend Jason (our Shephard Center neighbor) from Florida will undergo yet another surgery on Wed, so please pray for him tonight.

Hope that you are all ready for summer. Did you know that it is already May? Man, times flies so quickly. We are trying to sell our camper, we have found a camper that Jaque can manuver around in her chair in. Got to get that girl to the lake and swimming. She likes swimming, right Papa Danny. Talk with you all soon.

On the road the recovery

Well, i guess you could say that the road to recovery has many areas. Yesterday, Grandma Kay and I took Jaque to see her pediatrician. He talked with her a little while, and then he said, "Jaque, you have not changed a bit. You are just as Sassy as ever!" Praise God. She is starting to feel better already. She was so glad to see him, and he said thank God that she was alive. Yes, thank him.

Last night we ventered to the ball park. Yes, that is what I said. The ballpark. Jaque's won ever award that could be given at that park. We had an undefeated season. We have had three home runs in one night. We have even had a perfect game thrown there. She was excited to go because a little girl that she had been giving lessons was playing. Abby was hoping that Jaque could come, and Jaque wanted to see everyone - including her little project. Abby did great. No, she did not strike them all out, but who does at 11 years old. And, yes, Jaque did tell her that it would come, just keep her body straight!

When we arrived, it was like I was with a celebrity. Well, gosh, I was. Everyone came over and was so glad to see her. Madison and Haley were headed out the gate, and walked back in with her. They are such great friends. She was not the least bit emotional. She was excited, but not in anyway fearful or disappointed. Here she is watching her friends play the love of her life, a little round ball. You know what she said - she said, "Man, Amber if you release it this way you will get a better spin." "Lanie is throwing better than I have ever seen her." Then in talking about Abby she told Madsion to yell at her not to aim it, and to tell her she was doing a great job. She told Diane (comish of girls softball) that they played well, and those girls just better be glad that she was not out there. And she laughed, saying it won't be long. She said, well it might be - but I hope not, just when ever God is ready.

Yep, there is Coach Jaque, back in action. She has somewhat of a glow around her. Most of that is because she is our little miracle, but that field brought some too. She is such a loving girl. She in all that she has been through - still sees that she has so much to offer. Today, in what physical shape she is in -- but more importantly, tomorrow and each day to come in that that God is offering her for the rest of her life. He is working on her, and she will prevail.

Grandma Kay said that everyone out at the ball park knew her, the spikey haired grandma. I could tell that she was so proud to be with Jaque, and Jaque was proud for her to be there too. Someone said that she looked in such good spirits. My comment was, we she is actully kind of quiet today. Typical Jaq, right? Everyone we saw said "Jaque, I have been praying for you." Everyone. GOD IS ALIVE AND IS WORKING THROUGH HER.

Thank God that she is alive, and thank God for all of you praying. There has never been a day of doubt for me that she will walk again. Remember what I have told you all - those that were in the devil's bleachers have moved to God and Jaque's side. She is #8, the eight ball on a pool table. It does not matter how well you play the game of pool, unless you are the one to hit in the eightball flawlessly, you cannot win. Yes, she is still a typical teanager, but what I am telling you is that through her, many teens will come to see Jesus as our Lord. She is #8. She has made your faith stronger, hasn't she -- see the it factor is working!

Love you all. Carol

Jaque holding strong

Hey guys. Well, it has really been busy since we have been back home. Chris, Bo, and Toby have been working on the finishing touches for Jaque's room. It looks so great. I will try and get some pictures posted. Kelsey said "this room is the coolest ever." So, guess that is a stamp of approval.



Grandma Donna just left. She helped us out a lot. She really helped get the house back liveable. Funny how quick dust accumulates when no one lives in a house. I know that she hated to leave Jaque, but I am sure that she will be back soon. Papa Danny picked her up on Sunday. As Jaque would say "Sweet Jesus" grandma, thanks so much for everything. I am not sure she knew what she was getting her self into.

Grandma Kay will be up on Wednesday. It is so great that these wonderful ladies are giving up their time to come down here. Really -- how fortunate are Chris and I to have such wonderful parents? God has blessed us so much. I know that Jaque is really enjoying getting spoiled. Of course, out of these grandma's what else is knew?

Papa Phillip and Melinda are expected after Grandma Kay. And Uncle Lane and Lindy are coming up every weekend that they can.



Just want you all to keep praying for Jaque. She went to school 2 whole days and 2 half days last week. This week she has not gone. She has come down with what I am hoping is allergies. Coughing a lot, so please keep her in your prayers. I called her dr today to see if they had gotten her medical records and if I should bring her in. Ms. Sylvia said "Praise God that child is a blessing to be alive." How true it is. I know that God is keeping Jaque in check and making sure that she is not rushing this recovery too much. It is hard to see her sick, but I know that we are so much farther ahead than we were just a few short weeks ago.

I told her today that this is the first day since we have been home that she has spent all day in bed. That is such a big improvement from Atlanta. Eddie is doing great. He and Sassy are buddies now. They have officially swam together in the pond. They were sitting on the porch just hanging out, and the cows across the road were walking by. I guess this is the first time that Eddie has ever see a cow. It was too cute. He just kept looking at them and not really barking just kind of clearing his throat at them. Jaque and I watched them for 30 minutes. Guess he is a city dog gone country.

I wish that you would all say a special prayer tonight for Mr. Wesson's family. He was Chris's instructor at instrument school, and he was like my mentor also. When I worked at NWLA Tech I helped him with typing and grading exams. He was a great man. Full of knowledge, and character. He believed in us (Chris and I) as parents wholeheartedly. In fact, when we were in Little Rock at Children's hospital, he and his wife and Toby's parents made a trip to see Jaque. He told me after visting her that she looked so grown up. He said "Carol, God is watching over Jaque, and she will be ok. It is not going to be easy, and it is going to take patience, but she will be just fine." He said that she had grown up to be such a lovely young woman.

Yes, Mr Wesson she has. And it is people like you along the path of our lives that have made us who we are today. Thank you so much, I love you and will miss you. Rest assured that my daughter will know the man you were. Thank you for laying your hands on her and praying for her.

Thanks everyone for keeping up with Jaque's progress. You will all share in GOD's and Jaque's glory. Love you. Carol (carol.hall3@weyerhaeuser.com)

Yes, we made it home!

Hey guys, sorry for the delay in updating. Jaque has been really pushing herself since we have been home. She looked beautiful at prom. Nina had taken care of her date's tux and flowers for Jaque. They matched beautifullly. She went out to eat with a big group of kids, and then had a blast at prom. She said that it was so great seeing everyone. She went right back into school on Monday. She has went two and 1/2 days so far.

It feels great to be home. She was so blessed with the family that came in to see her off at prom. Bo, Toby, Lane, Heath, Jeff, and Chris worked hard on getting her room finished. Of course we all know that Lori is the mastermind behind this wonderful room that is litterally build from pure LOVE. You honestly feel like you have just been hugged by God when you enter the doorway.

Everyone has been so generous. Not jsut with monetary things, but with their time. I promise you if you stop by and see her room - you will be a better person for it.

Back to school was great. Nina and Josh came over to break in the Wii. Then Maegan and Ashley W came over and made sure that Jaque made it to the baseball game. Of course she was not ready to stay the entire time, but it was great for them to include her. She has really missed them all so much. I heard that she has already got on the basketball court, sounds like Jaque.

Many people have asked me if Jaque will ever walk again. I got to thinking you all reading this blog may have the same question. The doctor's say that she has everything that her body needs to recover from this accident. They say it takes 6-8 months for the swelling to go down around the spinal cord. They also say that the nerves grow at a slow rate. They say that knowing her, nothing is impossible. They give her all the hope in the world. It is just not something they can run a test on, see in a MRI or Catscan, or do blood work on. The doctors are not intelligent enough right now, nor do they have the technology to quite understand the spinal cord.

Now for the good part. WE ALL KNOW JAQUE. WE ALL KNOW THAT SHE HAS BEEN DOING MORE THAT EXPECTED OF HER THE ENTIRE TIME SHE HAS BEEN ON EARTH, AND IN HER OWN SWEET TIME. We know that if they say she may throw 50's, she throws 60. If they say she cannot make a shot from half court, she will make one from the opposite free throw line. If they say she is just a small town girl, she winds up on the news, and in the local newspaper leading the story! Each and every time she has been set a limit or an expectation, she will do just one better to show you she has got it in her. And she will say sweet Jesus and Praise God each time her toes wiggle or her knee moves.

Jaque will walk again, we just must be patient. In her and God's sweet and special timeframe, Jaque will be a walking testimony to her friends, her family, and all that know her story. God is just beginning her recovery. He did exactly what needed to be done to get her home for prom. In his and her perfect timing. Now his great work will continue as she draws many young people in our area near to her. Keep praying, and keep the faith. God is working in all of our lives. All.

FYI -- look at this link for the newspaper article.Cherokee Tribune - The call of service
Oh, and Eddie and Sassy are doing well. Love you all and will talk with you soon. Carol

Last night in the ATL

Who would think that it is here. Our last night in the ATL. We have had so many memories here and have met so many good people. Our lives will indeed be much richer for those that have crossed paths with us. I hope everyone understands that this blog will not stop once we are back in Haworth. We will keep it updated on Jaques progress, and hope that you will all keep checking it.

Jaque made an A+ on her written exam for dog handler and an A++ on the oral exam. I hope that this makes those teachers at Haworth proud. She worked hard and struggled through long days to pass. Tomorrow is Eddie and Jaques public access final. We will got to Target and then to Chili's. Then we will have a graduation party for Jaque and Eddie. They are doing so great together. This morning when I woke up I glanced over at Jaque (my Angel) and there sat Eddie with his head proped slightly on the side of the bed with his nose just about 1" from her nose, being quiet and just watching Jaque sleep. It was so great. They do not want the service dogs to be protective, but I am afraid that he already is. You can see that he has been touched by the "IT" factor.

In talking with Ramona, founder of GCI she told me of one of the volunteers at GCI (Georgia Canine) whose daughter is now 25 and has been in a wheelchair most of her life. The volunteer had met Jaque one day last week. She told Ramona that she had never quite met anyone like Jaque. She said that her attitude, personality, and wonderful smile was one that she had never seen in anyone in a wheelchair before. She just could not say enough about how much Jaques attitude touched her life and inspired her. She said that she was so confident and hopeful and that she was so strong in her faith. She knew that Jaque was not going to be kept down long.

What a proud day as a parent. It is one that you just dream of. To hear that your child could touch a life like that is amazing. I just want to make sure that all of you understand that this is not something that Chris and I have done on our own. It was ALL of our family, and friends that have helped mold her and make her. See - my thought is that God is the teacher and gave us the clay, and through him we all help mold each other a little everyday. Jaque told someone yesterday that she has learned that you have to be careful what you say to someone because it just might be the last time that you see them. SO she said that she tries to make sure that everyone knows how much she loves them and what they mean to her.

Just remember - we love you all. Larissa, Toby, Bo, Lori , Courtney, Heath, Suzanne, & Presley how in the world will we every repay you. BO, thank God Lori has kept you in line all this time! We thank you for your continued prayer. You all began this journey with us on January 3. The minute I arrived and saw her, I dropped to my knees and prayed to GOD. Thank you all for doing the same. May we bless your lives the way you continue to bless ours. SEE YOU SOON!

TOMORROW'S THE BIG DAY

We are all so excited that tomorrow is the biggest day yet. Jaque gets to come home to stay. I know that is has been a long hard road for them but Jaque makes it look like a breeze. She always has that beautiful smile and positive attitude about her. You know at her age to have all that has happened to her in last 6 months she could've turned into a very bitter person. Not Jaque, she has just blossomed and everyone around her has been blessed because of it. Jaque I can only imagine what your thoughts and pain might be, but your positive attitude, strength, and love of the Lord will bring you through this. We love you so much and are so very proud of you and your parents.
HURRY UP AND GET HOME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! we are all waiting for you.

Love you MEME and PAPA

Two More Days to Haworth!

Good afternoon everyone. We are sitting around the hotel. Today was sort of a day off. We have Eddie with us, and are working on Jaque's written exam. Later today she will get to go with Eddie and Kellie & Betty (the golden in the video) to dinner and a movie. Sounds fun, and I am sure it will be. But, it will also be work for Eddie and Jaque. They are both being tested right now. They both must pass a strict testing procedure for Eddie to come to Haworth with us.

Jaque is feeling pretty good. She has been working really hard, and moving around a lot. So sore would be a mild understatement. I know that it is good we got her unlimited text because she has been burning her phone up getting ready for prom.

She told me today that she is tired of feeling sick, and ready to get home. I reminded her of how far she had come. I reminded her that it was not long ago that she could not even shave her own underarms. Little things that we take for granted like that she could not do. Slowly and surely she is getting her strength to do things back. Yesterday we were transfering from her chair to another and her legs tried to stand up. Yep, they did it just once, but they did it. She said that it was so weird.

I told her that that is just God testing all the nerves and muscles. One by one he is going through them, seeing what needs healed and what is already done. He is checking each and every path, making sure that he achieves perfection, then she will be ready.

I said yesterday that we asked when Jaque beings walking, do we get to keep Eddie? Ramona from GCI said that it was really up to us, and duh!!! Eddie will be a part of our family then. I just wanted to point out to you all that we said WHEN she begins, not if but WHEN.

As softball season quickly approaches, please keep Jaque in your thoughts. She is so strong and such a great person, but she still needs our prayers as she approaches going home and watching the game she loves so much. Please be sure to approach it as something that she must appreciate that she has done, and something that she will do again - no matter what age - she will do again. The best way to face adversity is straight on, and God granted her the talent for the yellow ball for a reason. He gave her that wonderful GOD GIVEN gift for a reason.

As her mom, I know she is not ever just someone in the stands, she will always be the best thing that McCurtain County ever has. My hero, now and for always. Funny, I have always told her she was going to be famous one day. And at 17 years old she has been on TV and said something that most people would not have the strength to say at my age. And the best part is that it was not on a script, just straight from the heart.

Just two more days guys, just two more days. Love Ya'll. You make each day possible. You give us strength. God Bless You today. Carol, Jaque, Chris, and Eddie (and of course Sassy from home)

Jaque and Eddie already on TV

Don't have much time. Just wanted to let you all know Jaque was the lead story on TV last night. Her clip was the segway to the 11 o'clock news in Atlanta> It was so cool, she was the one that pre-emited the nightly news here. Wow, what is this kid not capable of???

Here is a link that should get you there.

www.11alive.com
It is in the pet section, it literally was the first story last night! You can also watch the video too.

If the link does not work, type in 11Alive news for Atlanta GA. Love you all and send this link all you know. Just so you know, Jaque was sure to tell the reporter her story and that God is what has gotten her this far. She said God and all her friends she has praying for her.

Love ya'll and talk with you later. Carol (jaque, chris, and eddie too!)

Saturday night in the Big town

Hey all. In case you are wondering, we did get a little rain here last night. Just enough to knock the pollen down. And yes, the pollen is the worst I have ever seen. Everything is some shade of yellow.

We are three full days into Eddie and Jaque and I am feeling more confident than every on our decision for there union. They make such a good team. He literally seems to read her mind. Today he learned from Jaque that my name is mom and Chris is dad. Then she had him pick up a bad off of the floor and bring to her. Then when he got to her, she said take it to mom Eddie, and pointed at me. He brought it straight to me. It was so good, Ramona (dog trainer extrodinare) told her to end on that. Eddie and Jaque had done so well, she just wanted to stop right there with them for today.

After that we had to make a trip to the mall. It seems as though Jaque just might make her first TV appearance. The 11Alive news station from here in Atlanta wants to come out and do a news story on them. Pretty cool, huh. And don't worry grandma's if they do I will see where we can get a tape of it.

God has blessed us with this extra time in Atlanta. He has brought us here for a reason. It may be the atheist that Chris met in the building next to training camp. He told her all of Jaques story. It may be the others in her group that hear of her story and of all of you. And who knows, it may be someone that we have yet to meet. Our fellow classmates, AJ, Hope, and Kelly are all wonderful. We are indeed thankful for God crossing our paths. AJ and Hope's dad commented to me that there is just something about Jaque that tells you she has what it takes to do whatever in life she wants. He believes. Ramona said it best in class today. She said that she believes that you will achieve the expectations that those around you set. She said in Eddie's case expectations are high because there is nothing he cannot learn to do. He is a worker, and loves to please. I say in Jaque's case she is a worker and there is nothing she cannot learn to do. We know it, and you all reinforce it each time you talk with her or write. What a team.

May God bless each and every one of you tonight. May you dream of walking in the fresh cut grass of summer, with Jaque walking by your side. Praise him for the good things in our life. I praise him and thank him for all of you. Love you all - Carol, Jaque, and Chris

First day of class

What a great day. We just got back to the room from dinner. I am updating you all. As I am typing, the sun is shining. Jaque is outside wheeling around the hotel, laughing every time she passes our window. She, I am sure, is talking to one of her friends back at Haworth. We got up and actually got out the door on time. We were all a little restless, guess it was the excitement of the unknown. We have two other dogs in our class, both golden retrievers. So we started class with Eddie, Charlie, and Betty. We had lecture time (yes, Jaque was in true form and fell asleep for that part once, she wanted to make Mrs McKee proud) then we had handling classes. It was so cool. It is really more that I ever thought it would be. Jaque and Eddie work so well together. One man (with Charlie) commented that she made it look to easy. He asked if she always kicked butt like that. Of course Chris assured him that she does.

Eddie is of course a dog. So he is easily distracted with treats. But hard work is what he was born to do. He likes to get the job done, do it right the first time, be the first one done, and do it just a little better than the person beside him. Sound like anyone else we know? Then, he and Jaque like to go that little extra. Example is that they were suppose to "Let's go, heel, sit, yes." But they "Let's go, heel;, sit, down, stay, yes" and he stayed exactly where she put him. Kind of like when Jaque was told that she did not have what it takes to be a pitcher. She was told that they would give her all the easy games to let her practice. YOU KNOW WHAT HAPPENED NEXT?? She pitched the easy game, a shutout......from then on, she pitched the hard games.

Its kind of like the feeling you get when you know someone believes in you. You know how you can feel it in your heart, mind, soul, and your big toe? When someone tells you that they know you can do it. They know that if you want it, just grab it. You just have to believe. Well, for the past few months ---- you are the ones supporting Jaque, and me and Chris. You are the ones.

Once in Little Rock, I was talking to Jaque. She was sleeping. I told her to look around her. I told her that the devil once had his bleachers full. I told her that through her accident, I was dreaming that one by one the people were getting up and moving. She was pitching, and those that had been sitting with the devil were getting up, one by one, and moving to God's team, you know, her side of the field. I told her that they were winning. And that all of her teammates were cheering her on.

She is so special to me. I thank God every day that he chose me to be her mom. I thank him for you all being in our lives. And I give him praise for the work he is doing in her life. Eddie found her for a reason. They are building a special bond. He is helping in her transition from Rehab to home. He is helping her build the bridge that will bring her back to all of you. He will be so happy to meet all of you. We cannot wait for sassy to meet him. Maybe he can fetch for her too!!!!

Love you guys. Carol (Jaque and Chris)

Congrats Jaque!

Hope all is well in your lives! We have heard that Broken Bow lake is on the verge of flooding, so hope you all are getting pictures for us.

From Jaque: "Whew! I finally am out of rehab. Did not think the day would come soon enough. We just checked into the Holiday Inn Express in Ackworth GA. Tomorrow I get to see Eddie again. I am laying here checking out the room service menu. Yes, we just ate dinner, but you guys know me, already hungry again. Thought I would write and let you all know that I love and miss you. I have been working hard for all of you. Funny how strong so many people praying can make you. Love ya and will write soon, Jaq."

Today at grad, one of the ladies said, you know Jaque is our first softball pitcher. They said you know if anyone can do it, it will be her. You can just see it in her eyes. HOW TRUE THEY ARE. If anyone can do this, it is her and the Lord. She got the "most likely to be the boss award" and "the most likely to look the best at prom award." Boy, does not take them long to peg her well.

We have an early morning tomorrow, just wanted to make sure that you all knew we made it ok. We love you and I will try and post more tomorrow night. She said to let you know the only thing that is better than getting out of theraphy will be when she gets back home to see you all.

Think hard tonight and pray for someone that you have not seen in a while. I will do the same. Then you will ALL know that someone is praying for you tonight also. Love you and see you soon. Carol (jaque and chris)

Drivers test -- check!

What a morning! It started out with overcast weather. As we were getting dressed, I asked Jaque if she was still nervous. We overheard a preacher on TV and he said, "Let me remind you all that God did not give us the spirit of fear." Funny that this is just the channel that was on when we turned the TV on. And Chris turned it on as he was walking out the door to get her blueberry muffins. Turned it on just to wake Jaque up. Those close to our family understand that this is a message from God telling Jaque that he, and her ol uncle CJ are still with her. She said, "oohhh! hope God don't let me drive like CJ today, I might flunk!" Then we laughed and hugged each other. She looked so cute, all decked out in her green Victoria Secret Sweatshirt that says Think Green Wear Pink, and her pink plaid capri's.

She had to answer quite a few questions concerning her wreck, and what physical limitations that she has at the current moment. Then she had to do a few hand-eye coordination drills, and of course what driving test would be complete without the vision screening. She did well on all of it. And when we finally made it to the car, she had that glow about her. You know, the "it" she has. She had to drive down Peachtree Street (the busiest six lane, non interstate street in Atlanta) and the get on I-75, loop around and come back to hospital. The driving instructor said she did really well. And so, one more chapter written in our lives. In Jaque's life, one more part of her independence regained! Praise God.

By now most of her friends at Haworth know that she moved her foot yesterday. It was her left foot, and she picked her toes up about 1 inch off of the ground, and put them back. She did this for a couple of minutes before even telling me. We were getting her hooked up on the FES bike. She was smiling, I thought Chris had done something. (passed gas, picked his nose?) But she laughed and said look mom. She can control it for around 3 - 5 minutes each time. Then, just like it came, it goes. But it is great that it is coming. God is great. He continues to show us that it is his WILL, his WAY, and through his POWER that health is being restored to her. By the way, it is the third time this week that we have seen this movement. Immediately she and I said Praise GOD!

Well, got to run guys. Jaque is having lunch with her OT's, PT's, and TR's from the 2nd and 3rd floor. They are all so sweet and special in our heart. God Saved Jauqe. They have helped her regain her strength and sassy'ness.

Thanks to Coach Reynolds, the Haworth Lady Lions, and Kelsie Jackson for being there for her. She Loves you all and cannot wait to get home.

Love to you all. And Grandma Kay -- DR Pepper----that is a serious commitment. We love you all and know that God is working so much love through all of you. Grandma Kay & Papa Larry, Grandma Donna and Papa Danny, Papa Phillip and Mamaw Melinda - thanks for all you do for us and Jaque. We could not make this journey without you. Carol (Jaque and Chris)

ok, I am Crazy!

Ok, I guess by now you all know that we are coming home APRIL 17th. I am doing good to get the 2008 right, much less the month!

We had a great weekend. Stayed in on Friday. Weather was stormy so we ordered pizza and watched movies. Saturday was off to a slow start. Then we went to mall and found earrings for prom. Of course we found lots of other stuff too, but Chris keeps reminding us that he has to have room for him and Eddie in the car (dog). Then after the mall, we traveled to see Eddie. It was a great pick me up for Jaque. They had fun playing. He was excited to see her again. Yesterday we went to the Stone Mountain State Park. I have posted a picture. It was beautiful. All I could think of was my dad, those iron makers and kettle corn poppers. The banjo and fiddles playing - just knew my dad would love it. My dad, aka Papa Danny has not been feeling great. Please keep him in your prayers.

Jaque is getting excited about coming home. She has three days this week, one of which might be in the pool, yeah!!! Her driving evaluation is tomorow. WHAT??? Yep, she will be in a car driving tomorrow. She is nervous about it, so please thing of her 9 AM Atlanta time. On Wed, n we go 20 min north to Ashworth for training with Eddie. Part of that training is going to be outings for dinner, movies, etc. So it will be fun, but also teach them how to get around in public places.

**God is working in Jaque. We came out of the mall one night and were very hungry. We saw Maccino's Italian Rest. Funny thing was we did not want to go to that resturant, but Chris insisted. SO, we gave in. We huffed and puffed, but went anyway. Then we entered and it looked a little fancier on the inside, but we stayed. Then we got the menu and thought ARE WE SURE WE WANT TO EAT HERE? Chris said we can leave if you want. But we were alredy there. So we ordered, and were still hesitant. But we stood strong on our decision. At the table behind us, a man and woman kept staring at Jaque. She said, "mom I think that guy is staring at me" and then she smiled and she said that he just kept smiling at her. Just before we got our food, the lady from the table came over and spoke. She told Jaque that she had a nephew in a chair and he was 26 years old. She said that they could hardly get him out of the house. She gave us his email, and we gave her Jaque's web site. We told her that it would be an inspiration. Not just that about Jaque, but that faith that is felt in our family and friends.

See - God works. Jaque is such an inspiration. Actually, God working through Jaque is touching so many lives. It is the "Jaque" factor. She just has it. In her smile, in her laugh, and in her eyes. And you all are such a blessing to us, every minute of every day. Keep the faith and keep praying. We have come so far together, and we are stronger now that we have every been - all of us.

I will update on the driving. Love ya'll. You guys are great. Carol (Jaque and Chris)

Thursday, rainy and mild

Hey guys. Jason is out and doing well. They could not find anything wrong with him. He and Jaque both have been getting better ever since.

Yesterday Jaque and the group went to the zoo on an outing. Basically, they take them to public places and teach them how to manuver. She said zoo was good. Said they did not even have a bear! Funny story was that she and Jason were trying to make it up a steep hill. Jaque was in front. She said that it was hard. She said that she would stop to rest, and Jason would pull behind her, lock his brakes, and give her a push. Funny that no matter where you are in life, its nice to have someone watching your back for you. She had a great day, no doubt from the amount of prayer she is receiving from all of you.

Today she, Jason, and a group of 3 others went to Georgia Tech Campus here in Atlanta for a tour. All that went with her were college age, but they said given Jaques personality, they felt that she needed to go ahead and get the feel for it. She had a good time, but was disappointed because most were off on spring break. No football or baseball players.

We are set to be out of the day program on March 9, and then to service dog training on March 10 - 17. And finally home that night for prom!!! Yippie! Then, we will be home for a while. We may come back up for specialized theraphy during the summer a week here or there, but for the most part we will be home! Once we get home, we will be working double time to get all that school work done.

We are on our way to the apartment. Just wanted to let everyone know that her FES bike will ship this week. Praise GOD. And from what we are hearing, insurance is picking up the majority for this. Thank you all for praying with us, and most of all - thank God for his contiuned blessings on Jauqe's life.

It is hard sometimes to see someone you love hurting. But through it, glory will we ours. God will restore health unto Jaque and is healing her wounds!!!

Love you all
Carol (jaque and chris)

Super Tuesday

It is April Fool's Day. We were talking about what we could write to everyone and "fool" them. But we could not think of anything. Not one thing. We are so happy these days with absolute truths, that to fool you all that are so far away - well it is just not an option.



Jaque is better today. Her leg is still swollen. But it is shriking. I call one skinny minny, and the other fatty. It is cute, they like being called that. She is still sweating, but the fever seems to have run its course. She looks stronger this morning, and it seems that we are getting back to where she was last week. We have not heard any knew news on Jason, but we will post when we hear anything.



I know that God knows what he is doing in her life. He is doing on the timeline that is good for her. I do not know if I have shared with you all the point that we were in Arkansas, and it was January 6. It was the Sunday monring that Jaque's lung collapsed. We had called the family, woke them all up to get to hospital. She was turning, and it was the wrong way! They were trying to clean the tube down her throat, and her lung did not like it. Chris and I were there and we were praying for her. We had our hands on her, and finally we said what God was waiting to hear. "God, we are not sure what is going on with Jaque. We know that she is in a lot of pain. Lord, please let your will be done in her life." This is very personal, but you all need to hear it. Then, Chris and I said "God, whether it be that Jaque is taken from us to you, or that you keep her here, Lord please let your will be done." "Our prayer is that you heal her and bring her back to us, but your will is what we want for her." We were there. We were at the point that a parents get to where you have tried to control everything about your child, and realize that you must place them in God's hand. Then, be guided by his will for their life. After that, each of our family members came in (two by two) and laid hands on her and prayed. She made a U turn and got on the right road!



Everytime we try and control things, they change course down the wrong road. Yet when guided by his will, we travel down the right path. God chose to give Jaque life. He chose that she has more work to do on this earth. To say that any of us are the same people after this would be way off the mark.



I heard from Jaque's Arkansas Children's Hospital neighbor last night. There child is out and doing well. She said that she had been keeping up with Jaque's blog. She had a wonderful email. made me cry. Then as we walked into the apartment last night I told Jaque and Chris to stop. I told them "See, I want you both to realize that when something good happens the devil tries to steal your glory. Today she felt lead to email Jaque by God. God lead her to us. She was sent to remind us all that he is not done with you yet, Jaque."



I remembered thinking that while Jaque laid there in Little Rock, why is she is so much pain? Then it came over me like a ton of bricks. It is like it happened yesterday. She is so strong. She was 16 years old. She laid in that bed, and she watched us from above. She saw those little children, some just a few days old, never having ran or thrown a ball. They have not talked or walked. She gave them her strength. One by one, those around improved, and went home. They moved out of ICU, on there way. To date, I have not shared this thought with Jaque.



A while ago, she told me that she wondered why it happened to her. She said after thinking about it, she knew that of all her friends, she was physically the strongest, so she was glad. (that is not her being cocky, that was her being heavy hearted and honest) She said some might not could have made it, but she could. She said I could not have handled losing one of my friends.



In the face of it all, she knew she was strong. God knows how strong each of us are. He says that he will never put more on us than our shoulders can bear. Any of you knowing Jaque knows that she has MAN SHOULDERS. I wish it could have been me, but she says I am a wimp! Funny Jaque, smart mouthed as ever!



Enough babble for today. Love you all, Carol



Please pray for the Shelby Family of Texarkana (Viper teammate Ashley Johnson's friends mom) Shelly, on her birthday tomorrow, is set to be taken off of life support, and will go home to the LORD. This was very sudden in their lives. They need our prayers. May we all seize the moment, for we must not take any for granted.

Pray for Jason

My friend and neighbor here in ATL JASON MILLS (from Cayman Islands) is in the hospital. He is suffering from same symptoms that I have been having. He went in late Sat night. Pray for him, please. LV u all

Good Monday Morning

Hello all! Hope you all had a great weekend. Ours started off with a little excitment on Friday. You all know Jaque has been under the weather since we returned home from Haworth. From stomach sickness to a swollen leg, she has had a wide range of symtoms. In fact, they still are not sure what she has going on.

On Friday, after another long night, I decided that enough was enough, and we went to see the nurse. She told us to prop the leg (doing that) and take tylenol (doing that). So she finally got a doctor to come up and see Jaque. He was much more concerned with ruling out the bad possiblities. They did an EKG and it came out ok. Then he decided that they needed to do blood work. He wanted to make sure that she did not have a blood clot, or anything else for that matter, going on in her lungs. They drew blood, of course Jaque cried because she is so afraid of needles now. And off the nurse went. We then went down stairs to see another doctor. When he came in and read the results of the blood work, he looked at Jaque in wonder. He told the nurse that the results could not be right. The nurse said that she had two other technicians look at the blood and it was consistant with the color of arterial blood. She told the doctor that she ran it twice. He told her he did not care, to draw the blood again.

He looked at me and said that if these were correct, we would be going straight to the hospital. Jaques eyes got big. I told her that it would be ok. That to have faith that it was only vein blood, and that the second test would be ok. I told her no matter what, we could deal with it, as long as we found out what it was. About that time Chris called and was coming up. I caught him outside and had him come in for the second drawing of blood. Yes, she still cried, but held his hand and did better. MAN that was a HUGE NEEDLE! They compared the two tubes of blood, and they were the same color.

Well, the doctor came back in and said that it was much better. Said that it was a false alarm. Ain't God great? Ain't he? So he changed the antibiotics that she was one, and hopefully that will do. As of this morning, the leg is still swollen, but not as big as before. She is still sickly, but better than last week.

No turkey hunting. Guess God was not ready for her to shoot a gun yet. Next time he could just send a text message, right? Lots of rest, and TV. It rained Sat and Sun. Last night was the first she peaked her head out of the apartment since lunch on Friday. We drove up to Stone Mountain, it was getting dark so with any luck we can make our way back this coming weekend.

SO thank you for your prayers for Jaque, as you can see, they are working. It is when we are at our best that the devil tries to attack. She had a great high on Thursday, and he tried to take her glory. One thing I am learning is that the devil can only take your glory if you are willing to give it to him.

We are not, are you? I know that if you are reading this -- you are not!! It is easy to have faith when all is going well. It is hard to keep faith when you lose patience. We serve an awesome God. He will restore health unto Jaque and heal her wounds. JER 30:17. We must have the patience for his work to be done right, and faith that once he started with her, he will finish.

Hope all of you at Haworth are getting ready for prom. Thanks Coach for keeping Jaque up to speed on everything at school. You and her teammates mean a lot to her. To everyone in Elk City, Burns Flat, Dill City, and Springhill -- we love you all. We have such a great family.

Love you all and miss you all.
Carol (Jaque and Chris)

P.S. Please pray for Aunt Carolyn and Jaque's Viper Teammate Ashley Johnson's best friends mom.

Jaque says to call this THANK YOU JESUS

You all know today was the big prom dress day. It started out very slow. Jaque had a horrible tummy ache. We got to the Sherpherd center at 9:15 am (15 min late) and stretched well. We were set to leave at 10 sharp. Ashley & Danielle (theraphist from our day program group), Chris, Jaque, and I loaded up in the Tahoe and took off in search of the perfect dress. We had found it in an issue of a PROM preview magazine. There were two places I called here that had it in stock.

We arrived early at Gabriella's, the first shop. Yes, we arrived early believe it or not. We waited, and waited, and waited. Chris got out and tugged at the door and tried to set their alarm off. They are suppose to open at 11 am, but at 11:15 am we were loosing our steam. The other shop we were going to try was about 2o minutes farther out. Did we really want to go that far, or just wait a while longer for it to open. The clock was ticking and we only had a few hours. So we decided to go on. I remember thinking, not quite sure why - but I said I guess God did not mean for us to get a dress at that store today. Trying to keep Jaque from getting down, I told her it would be ok, mybe the next place was better anyway.

We then drove to Girli Girl in Buford GA. Remember this!!! We arrived, and started wondering where in the world we had turned off to. It was a quaint little main street type of town just outside of the big ATL. It was so cute and inviting. Just then the GPS said "arriving at Girli Girl" on the left. Becauase this is an outing, it means that Jaque attempts to manuver as much as she can on her own. As we were strolling up the sidewalk, steps were in front of each store, except ours. I thought, good. Then we opened the door to a step up, a step down, steps steps all around! No need to worry Jaque, I said, it will be just fine. Ashely and Danielle stook to their guns on Jaque working. She worked hard. They helped when needed, but she worked hard too.

After finding the dress that Jaque had picked up out of the magazine, we tried it and one more on. The other looked pretty good on hanger, but you never really know until you get it on. The owner, Tracy Hurd was very helpful. She made sure we had plenty of room to try on the dresses. Once Jaque got them on, she helped us look at a stitch here, and a tuck there. Chris of course talked her head off about Jaque and her story. You know - that factor that I have spoken of many times, the Jaque "it." After trying both dresses on, looking from all angles, we all had come to a mutual decision on her dress. It is a beautiful color - perfect for Jaques skin and her eyes. It will be so beautiful on her, but what wouldn't. Anyway................

Chris and I were talking about the dress. I told him that he needed to go ahead and pay for it. I said "use some of your cash because your debit card has a $300 per purchase limit." Since it was a $ 300++ dress, I wanted to make sure that the charge went through.

Just then the owner said no need to do that Jaque. I will make you a deal. PAY ATTENTION FAMILY AND FRIENDS. She said that I will make you a deal that if you send me a prom picture, and do not forget, this dress is on me. We all just kind of stood there for a second. What did she just say???? Yes, that is what she said. Jaque said WHAT?? The lady repeated herself to Jaque, and Jaque just went over and gave her a big hug. She bagged up the dress for us. She gave us her card with address and email.

After talking with her a bit more, we all left out scratching our heads, wondering what just happened. We know what happened. God took us to this place, crossed our paths with Tracy Hurd, and showed us his mighty works. All I could say is that is how great God is.

Not for the money part of this. It is not about monetary things. God let Jaque touch this woman's life, and in return she touched Jaque's, Chris's, Danielle's, Ashley's, and mine. Upon leaving, I told Ashley and Danielle that since day one of Jaque's journey things like this had happened. That God has blessed us every step of the way, and contiues to bless us still. Now in return, we will share this story with all of you, and you will share with who you know, and so on, and so on.

So when asking Jaque what to call our post today, she said "Thank you Jesus." Three little words, three very powerful little words, three life changing/path crossing little words. Love you all and keep up the prayers, you are always appreciated & loved.

Thank you Jesus.
Carol (Jaque and Chris)